It feels like the choice is to stay or go, to be Mormon or ex-Mormon. Why do we have to accept this binary? There are a lot of other choices that don’t entail giving up your Mormon identity. Go on sabbatical. Hold fast to your Mormonism—just make it your own. And don’t let anyone tell you that you have to make a choice. This session is guaranteed to upset ex-Mormons and Mormons alike.